Bitch

Men are the biggest bitches of all time.

What forces me to write about the members of the opposite sex in this context is a scenario that recently took place between 2 friends, a boy and a girl... B and G respectively. B liked G and had been asking her out for a couple of years but since B and G were the best of friends and G was not interested in making the relationship 'evolve' in any way, G was insistent upon remaining friends. However, over the due course of time G also developed feelings for B - but was dubious of B's long term commitment status as B was known to walk out in the most awkard of situations when G needed him the most. In the mean time, while this whole confusion of feelings and actions took place, B developed an insane possessiveness over G where he would sit outside her house at night in his car, stalk her wherever she chanced to go, call her 2 zillion times a day to ensure she was not on the phone with another boy and other such insane gestures. This also resulted in foul language, and even at times the desire to raise a hand and hit G from the B-arena. For the longest time G tried to outweigh the good in their relationship with the bad until a point came where there simply was no good left and all that was left was swearing, slapping and accusations of the highest degree that no girl could possibly take. After a thunderous encounter with one another, G's friends stepped in and took a stand for her which resulted in nothing but a messy situation that neither B nor G had anticipated, nor asked for. Although it was neither B's nor G's fault that other friends got involved, before they knew it... it became impossible for them to talk anymore because nobody wanted them to talk anymore... neither B's friends nor G's!

After that extremely lengthy description of the entire situation, G remained quiet. She knew that her friends had caused the messy situation B and G were drowning in. B also knew the same thing, but since B was a boy... he did what all boys do in a situation like this where their ego is being hurt by a girl. B began telling lies, editting important portions out of his 'story' and passing it among friends, friends of friends, friends of friends of friends and so on... B, being of the male species... took revenge for the ego-bruises by inviting all kinds of criticism by other fellow boys about G. And ofcourse, when given an open invitation, his boy friends began to get the importance that boys SO love and all of a sudden everyone had their 2 cents worth of advice and 'INSIGHT' to give on G and G's character and G's past and G's boyfriends and the boys G had supposedly made out with. Everyone had something to say........ 'Humnay tho pehlay hee kaha tha ke woh aisee hai'... 'We tried to warn u but you were so blind in her lust!'...

Oh please people. As much as it may hurt to know.... what is none of your business... will at the end of all these ramblings and bullshitting and lying and 'contributing', still remain none of your business. I know it hurts... but deal with it. Just because B gave you the license to bitch about the only girl he ever loved but who unintentionally stomped all over his ego by having friends who cared about her, really doesn't give you the official license to become her boyfriends, her friends, her maker-outers, and what-nots just for the sake of getting your word into the conversation and gaining some very-temporary importance. And the boy-gets-rejected-and-starts-bitching-about-the-girl scene is just so old and cliched. Get over it. She didn't like u... she chose B over you because he was a better person, a person more worthy of her feelings. And for those of you wellwishing 'warners' who tried soo soooo hard to keep B away from G right from the start.... well, guess what? You failed, and its time you realized that and moved on to your next victim... G2.

If you were really as great friends of B's as you think you are and try to be, well maybe it's time you opened your eyes to the fact that he ain't happy without her! No matter how much you bitch about her, no matter how many lies you tell him to help him move on and become one of the male-sluts you all are, no matter how many stories from the past you dig up (some true, most made-up), at the end of the day he still loves her! And it isn't sad that you can't see that.... it's pitiful and downright pathetic. Maybe next time you make up one more bitchy lie about G, you should pause for a moment and ask B what he really feels. Maybe asking him won't get him to tell you the truth... but if you're really the friends you claim to be.... you'll see it in his eyes anyway.

Maybe then you can move on to your next target. Change the prey. This one's taken. And he'd be happy about it too if you didn't exist to make him feel like shit a million times a day. Stop making him think he can't go back cause maybe that's just what he wants to do but the fear of humiliation amongst his asshole-ic friends isn't letting him.