I'm scared of the prospect of marriage.
I'm dubious of anybody being able to tolerate me for the rest of their lives while retaining their sanity. I'm curious to know if I'm really interesting enough to keep my hubby amused and interested until he's reached an age where he won't stray.
I'm worried of being on the other end of this story :P
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im scared of the prospect of marriage too. i dont know how i will spend my life with somebody after he doesnt want me nemore. i dont know if ill be able to make him a friend and i dont know how i will ever tell him the truth of my being. hushed into silence is not the easiest of things
its not that bad...feeling that way is normal....i felt exactly the same way (as we always do) but in the end of the day you relaize that that one person is all the 'real' family you have at that time...You ofcourse have your parents but its when you relaize that your husband is also your family that it becomes tolerable...that you realize you don't have to be perfect...and its then that forgiveness for his imperfections comes like a breeze of wind.
A male's perspective on the same:
how to dedicate your soul to another one and expect to become inseparable till the last breath?... difficult but seems possible with a bit of luck, i.e. after discussing with both sets, happy couples and not so happy ones...
conclusion: The only requirement is that you are able to appreciate what your partner is capable of in terms of adding value to you and your life...
as someone said " you see a chick on street and say wow, she's a real hottie and she is far more appealing to you than your wife... but suddenly you realize that my wife has contributed to me, my family and my life in so many ways that this chick might never have been able to"
thnk of it as relationships... a natural outcome of marriage, not a forced one!
aruj said: "someone doesnt want me nemore"... this wont be the case if both realize that the person has a lot more to offer than "want me"...you yourself said it... truth of my existence and don't forget to append that with his! ... :)
me scared too :S
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